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​Dating is to see if you fit; not to lust.

But to learn and grow in true love.

 

Being "in love" is not the same as real love, love that lasts,

that holds you together, through thick and thin.

 

Adults, or not, there needs to be trust and respect.

 

Nothing turns a woman off more,

then to be greeted at the door in such a state.

 

What transpires between the two needs to be mutual,

with no expectations but with caring and respect.

 

You want to make it work?

You listen and learn and understand without judgement...

and without argument.

 

If she says, "no", respect it, without feeling angry or resentful.

If you feel the need to argue or debate it, you've already blown it.

 

 

October 24, 2021